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Welcome to Divine Chaos

At Divine Chaos, we embody resilience, strength, and empowerment. Our mission is to support women who have experienced domestic abuse by offering a community where survivors can connect, heal, and grow together. Every product is thoughtfully crafted to honor your journey and celebrate your story. Together, we find beauty in chaos and build a space where healing transforms into empowerment.

 

Unmask the Dark Reality of Domestic abuse and

Rise unbreakable

Types of Abuse

  • PHYSICAL

  • SEXUAL

  • EMOTIONAL

  • FINANCIAL

  • COERCIVE

  • DIGITAL

  • PSYCHOLOGICAL

PHYSICAL

  • Scratching, punching, biting, strangling or kicking.

  • Throwing something at you such as a phone, book, shoe or plate.

  • Pulling your hair.

  • Pushing or pulling you.

  • Grabbing you to prevent you from leaving or to force you to go somewhere.

SEXUAL

  • Unwanted kissing or touching.

  • Unwanted rough or violent sexual activity.

  • Refusing to use condoms or restricting your access to birth control.

  • Threatening you into unwanted sexual activity.

  • Pressuring or forcing you to have sex or perform sexual acts.

  • Using sexual insults toward you.

EMOTIONAL

  • Calling you names and putting you down.
  • Yelling and screaming at you.
  • Intentionally embarrassing you in public.
  • Preventing you from seeing or talking with friends and family.
  • Telling you what to do and wear.
  • Damaging your property when they’re angry (throwing objects, punching walls, kicking doors, etc.)
  • Blaming your actions for their abusive or unhealthy behavior.
  • Threatening to commit suicide to keep you from breaking up with them.
  • Threatening to harm you, your pet or people you care about.
  • Making you feel guilty or immature when you don’t consent to sexual activity.

FINANCIAL

  • Giving you an allowance and closely watching what you buy.
  • Placing your wages in their account and denying you access to it.
  • Keeping you from seeing shared bank accounts or records.
  • Forbidding you to work or limiting the hours you do.
  • Preventing you from going to work i.e. by taking your car or keys.
  • Getting you fired by harassing you, your employer or coworkers on the job.
  • Maxing out your credit cards without your permission.
  • Refusing to give you money for food, rent, medicine or clothing.
  • Spending money on themselves but not allowing you to do the same.

COERSIVE

    • Unreasonable demands.

    • Degradation.

    • Restricting daily activities.

    • Threats or intimidation.

    • Monitoring of time.

    • Deprivation of food.

    • Destruction of possessions.

DIGITAL

  • Tells you who you can or can’t be friends with on Facebook and other sites.

  • Sends you negative, insulting or threatening emails, Facebook messages, tweets, direct messages or other messages online.

  • Uses sites like Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and others to keep constant tabs on you.

  • Posts negative things about you.

  • Sends you unwanted, explicit pictures and/or demands you send some in return.

  • Pressures you to send explicit video or sexts.

  • Steals or insists to be given your passwords.

  • Constantly texts you and makes you feel like you can’t be separated from your phone for fear that you will be punished.

  • Looks through your phone frequently, checks up on your pictures, texts and outgoing calls.

  • Tags you unkindly in pictures on Instagram, Tumblr, etc.

PSYCHOLOGICAL

  • Gaslighting – manipulating you into doubting your own sanity or reality.

  • Moving things around the house, or removing them and returning them later, then denying it.

  • Denying that you or they said things.

  • Telling you that people have said things about you, or that your friends don’t like you.

  • Telling you that you have a mental health condition when you haven’t.

  • Making derogatory jokes about you to others in front of you.

  • Name calling, telling you you are useless, stupid, worthless and mad.

  • Questions you endlessly about everything you do or say.

KNOW THE SIGNS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE

 

OUTSIDE LOOKING IN

 

  • CHANGES IN BEHAVIOR
  • INCREASED TENSION OR ANXIETY
  • EXCESSIVE SELF BLAME/APOLOGIZING
  • DEFENDING THEIR PARTNERS BEHAVIOR
  • CONSTANT CONTACT FROM THEIR PARTNER
  • ALTERED APPEARANCE
  • FINANCIAL STRUGGLES DESPITE NO CLEAR REASON
  • RIGID ROUTINE

 

 

 

BEHIND CLOSED DOORS

 

  • UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS
  • EXTREME JEALOUSY
  • CONTROLLING BEHAVIORS
  • QUICK INVOLVEMENT
  • ISOLATION
  • "PLAYFUL" USE OF FORCE OF SEX
  • DR. JEKYL AND MR. HYDE
  • VERBAL ABUSE

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